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No One Should Have No One

Published on 18 December 2020 11:58 AM

This Christmas is set to be the loneliest yet: three in five older people in the East Midlands are concerned they won’t see friends and family this Christmas.

More than 160,000 older people in the East Midlands are expecting to feel lonely this Christmas[i] according to Age UK’s new research for its No one should have no one campaign.

The second national lockdown in England has also caused uncertainty for older people, and three in five people aged 65 and over in the East Midlands - almost 576,000 people -  are concerned that ongoing COVID-19 restrictions might mean that they cannot see family or friends this Christmas[ii], potentially making this festive period the loneliest and scariest ever experienced for many older people.

Winter is always a tough time for older people - dark nights, short days and cold, often wet weather make it harder to get outside. These challenges combined with pandemic restrictions mean that chance encounters - like catching up with neighbours on the street or friendly chats at the supermarket - are less likely right now, yet they can make a big difference to those who are almost always on their own, or feeling lonely. 

Research carried out by Age UK has previously found that following months of staying inside, some older people have lost confidence in doing day-to-day activities they previously took in their stride, and are no longer taking pleasure from things they used to enjoy[iii]. With the worst of winter still very much to come and COVID-19 continuing to represent a threat to older people, we are worried that many will find the next few months particularly tough to navigate, especially if they are on their own.

The good news from these new findings is that people have stepped up to support our older population during the pandemic, which has made a huge and much appreciated difference – more than two fifths of older people in the East Midlands say they wouldn’t have got through the pandemic without their friends[iv], highlighting the power of friendships and human connection, which older people need now more than ever before.

However, while around 387,000 older people in the East Midlands have had someone call them for a chat because of their situation during the pandemic[v], sadly this isn’t the case for everyone. Recent ONS figures show that, across Great Britain, 2.2 million of over 60s say that haven’t had anyone to talk to about their worries[viii] and sadly 2.2 million said they felt like they are a burden on others[ix].   

For many older people, Age UK Lindsey will be their lifeline this winter, and the Charity is calling for donations to help fund its Keep Connected service. We've already delivered approximatley 400 Thinking of You Christmas gift packs, and with your help we can continue to provide a vital lifeline to older people across our area through our regular wellbeing phonecalls and monthly newsletters.

Andy, our CEO said: "This seems set to be a festive period like we have never experienced before, and not one any of us would want to navigate on our own. At the best of times, Christmas can be bitter-sweet for many older people, but this year they are going to need our support even more than usual. At Age UK Lindsey we were thrilled to hear older people paying tribute to all the friends, neighbours - and strangers - who had reached out to offer them help during the first wave, but the fact is we know that some older people missed out, and are likely to do so again. We want to be there with anyone who finds themselves in that position this winter, but we can only do it with the public's support, so please do donate to our campaign this year if you can."

This winter will be like no other, yet far too many older people are facing this challenging and uncertain time alone. Please visit our donation page to find out how you can support Age UK Lindsey.

[i] Age UK calculation based on data from Yonder online and telephone omnibus research polling for Age UK, November 2020 (sample of 2264 people aged 65+ in the UK, of whom 160 people aged 65+ were in the East Midlands) scaled up to the age 65+ population of the UK from ONS mid-year 2019 population estimates (published June 2020). 17% of people surveyed in the East Midlands answered either ‘slightly agree’ or ‘strongly agree’ when asked: ‘To what extent do you agree or disagree with the following statements?’ - 'I'm expecting to feel lonely this Christmas’.

[ii] Age UK calculation based on data from Yonder online and telephone omnibus research polling for Age UK, November 2020 (sample of 2264 people aged 65+ in the UK, of whom 160 people aged 65+ were in the East Midlands) and ONS mid-year 2019 population estimates (published June 2020). 61% of people surveyed in the East Midlands answered ‘When it comes to Christmas, what, if anything, are you most concerned about?’ - ‘COVID-19 restrictions might mean I cannot see family or friends’

[iii] Age UK (2020), ‘The impact of Covid-19 to date on older people’s mental and physical health’. Available at: https://www.ageuk.org.uk/globalassets/age-uk/documents/reports-and-publications/reports-and-briefings/health--wellbeing/the-impact-of-covid-19-on-older-people_age-uk.pdf

[iv] Age UK calculation based on data from Yonder online and telephone omnibus research polling for Age UK, November 2020 (sample of 2264 people aged 65+ in the UK, of whom 160 people aged 65+ were in the East Midlands) and ONS mid-year 2019 population estimates (published June 2020). 41% of people surveyed in the East Midlands answered either ‘slightly agree’ or ‘strongly agree’ to the question ‘To what extent do you agree or disagree with the following statements?’ ‘I wouldn't have got through this year, with the pandemic, without my friends / friendships’

[v] Age UK calculation based on data from Yonder online and telephone omnibus research polling for Age UK, November 2020 (sample of 2264 people aged 65+ in the UK, of whom 160 people aged 65+ were in the East Midlands) and ONS mid-year 2019 population estimates (published June 2020). 41% of people surveyed in the East Midlands answered ‘Which, if any, of the following has someone done for you this year because of your situation during the pandemic?’ – ‘Calling you for a chat’

[viii] Source: Office for National Statistics (13th November 2020). Table 11, Opinions and Lifestyle Survey (COVID-19 module), 28 October to 1 November 2020. Available at https://www.ons.gov.uk/peoplepopulationandcommunity/healthandsocialcare/healthandwellbeing/datasets/coronavirusandthesocialimpactsongreatbritaindata [accessed on 18th November 2020]. These figures are scaled up to the age 60+ population using ONS mid-year 2019 population estimates (published June 2020).

[ix] Source: Office for National Statistics (13th November 2020). Table 11, Opinions and Lifestyle Survey (COVID-19 module), 28 October to 1 November 2020. Available at https://www.ons.gov.uk/peoplepopulationandcommunity/healthandsocialcare/healthandwellbeing/datasets/coronavirusandthesocialimpactsongreatbritaindata [accessed on 18th November 2020].