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We are proud to launch our latest campaign that puts people, not just their diagnosis at the heart of the dementia conversation.

Support Our Campaign

Donate today, and help us raise £2,000 to support our dementia services right here in Plymouth.

Tied in with World Alzheimer's Month in September, an incredibly important time for us as a charity, this campaign highlights the reality of living with dementia while reminding us that memories may fade, but identities still remain.

Over the past few months, we’ve had open, honest, and moving conversations with our clients, staff, and families. They’ve shared how dementia has affected their lives - not just the challenges, but also the moments that show who someone still is. Their personality, their humour, their routines and their presence.

That’s what “I’m Still Me” is all about. Recognising that a person doesn’t disappear because of dementia. The campaign shines a light on lived experience, raises awareness, and keeps the conversation going across Plymouth.

The campaign has already begun with positive action. Last month, we launched a new knitting challenge off the back of the annual innocent Big Knit. “Forget Me ‘Knot”, a city wide challenge in support of “I’m Still Me”. The response has already been incredible, with the first wave of handmade forget me not flowers already arriving through our door.

As a charity working daily with older people and those living with dementia, we know the importance of continuing this conversation - in homes, communities, and across the city. Because dementia doesn’t erase a person.

Our fundraising target

We’ve set a fundraising target of £2,000. All money raised will go directly towards enhancing our dementia services.

£10 provides an activity pack for someone living with dementia to use at our Dementia Day Centre or at home.

£25 pays for equipment that promotes mental stimulation and physical wellbeing.

£84 helps our team offer vital information and advice - whether it’s increasing benefits, making home adaptions, or providing housing support.

Tina & Chris's story

“Sometimes I think the language of love is spoken in so many ways that you don’t need words. You just need people’s actions, their empathy, their support.”

Tina and Chris have spent nearly four decades side by side. From running nightclubs and pubs in Plymouth, to travelling across Europe in their motorhome while working for the Caravan and Motorhome Club, their life together has always been one of partnership.

That’s why, when things started to change, it felt like the ground was shifting between them. At first, it was small things. Chris asked what Legionella was - something he’d known for years in his work. He became agitated more easily, and Tina noticed his personality start to shift. At first, it wasn’t clear what was happening, and she assumed it might be depression. But within weeks of finally seeing a doctor, Chris was admitted to hospital and diagnosed with a rare form of frontotemporal dementia: semantic dementia.

“The neurologist said it was like an explosion going off in his brain.”

Semantic dementia affects the area of the brain responsible for understanding and expressing language. It hollowed out Chris’s ability to communicate. He gradually lost his vocabulary, then his ability to recognise every day objects, and now, he can no longer speak, read, or understand most instructions. “Since he was diagnosed, he stopped carrying money, cards. He can’t tell the time. He’s been in our house nearly four years - he’s never known the address.”

As his condition has progressed, Chris has become increasingly fatigued and life has had to slow down. But with that slower pace, Tina has learned to live more spontaneously, making the most out of the time and moments they have together.

Despite the rapid progression of the disease, Tina still sees the man she married in the small moments - even if he can’t express himself in words. “When he sees his friends now, they all want to hug him tightly, because they remember how kind he’s been over the years.”

Our “I’m Still Me” campaign is all about recognising that people living with dementia are still themselves. Their memories may fade, and communication may slip away, but the person, their values, kindness, sense of humour, their emotional responses - remains.

Chris no longer speaks, but Tina has found ways to stay connected to him. It hasn’t been easy - she’s had to learn how to communicate in new ways and respond to needs he can’t express. But she’s never stopped seeing him for who he is. “He’s reverted to being like a child, in his actions, in his ways. But I always make sure I protect his dignity. I always do my best to make sure he’s never in a position where he’d be embarrassed if he knew.”

Tina is clear that she wouldn’t be able to keep going without support. That came in the form of our Dementia Day Centre, where Chris now attends regularly, and in respite care that gives Tina a chance to breathe.

“When I brought Chris to the day centre, they’d never come across semantic dementia before. But they listened, they asked questions, and they got information in so that the carers could understand how best to support him.”

Caring for someone with dementia is complex. It takes a physical and emotional toll and is often isolating. Age UK Plymouth has helped Chris hold onto parts of himself - to remain visible, understood and respected. Through our Dementia Day Centre and respite care, we’ve supported Chris and Tina in navigating a very rare, very different journey with compassion and practical help.

“He’s not who he was, but he’s still him. The kindness is still there. The spirit is still there. I’ll keep showing up, because I know he would have done the same for me.”

Despite losing his ability to speak, understand instructions or recognise where he is, the team at our Dementia Day Centre recognise the person behind the diagnosis. They’ve offered Chris moments of comfort and compassion - and for Tina, they’ve offered her the reassurance that she’s not doing this alone. “Sometimes I think the language of love is spoken in so many ways that you don’t need actual words. You just need people’s actions, their empathy, their support.”

Even as dementia progresses, the person remains. Chris still feels, still responds, still shows glimpses of who he’s always been. That’s what “I’m Still Me” stands for - seeing the person, not just the diagnosis. With the support from Age UK Plymouth, that truth is protected every day.

How can I support the campaign?

While we’ll be doing everything we can to spread the word, we need your help to share our message even further. The more people who know about our campaign, the more understanding, support and dignity we can bring to those living with dementia in Plymouth.

You can support our campaign in all kinds of ways.

Donate what you can - we’re aiming to raise £2,000 to support our dementia services right here in Plymouth. Every penny helps us continue providing vital care, resources and support to those living with dementia and those around them.

Fundraise in your own way - host a coffee morning, take on a challenge, or get creative! For all fundraising enquiries, please contact fundraising@ageukplymouth.org.uk

Get your organisation involved - whether it’s your workplace, school, or local group, we’d love to bring as many people in Plymouth together to be part of this campaign.

We’ll be sharing personal stories, updates and behind the scenes content throughout our campaign, so make sure you’re following us on social media to stay connected and help keep the conversation going.

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Forget Me 'Knot'

Following the incredible success of our recent innocent Big Knit campaign in Plymouth, where we were blown away to collect nearly 4,000 little hats - we launched a brand new community challenge last month that ties in perfectly with our “I’m Still Me” campaign.

As we look ahead to World Alzheimer’s Month next month, we’re asking you to help us raise awareness by knitting Forget Me Not flowers - the symbolic flower of remembrance and support for those living with dementia.

Our target is to collect 500 Forget Me Not flowers, and we’d love for you to be a part of it. Whether you knit one or twenty, every flower helps us encourage important conversations and shows people living with dementia that they haven’t been forgotten.

The all important knitting pattern is available to view now - and we can’t wait to see what you create!

Thank you

Thank you for taking the time to learn about the “I’m Still Me” campaign and considering how you might support our work here at Age UK Plymouth. Every bit of kindness, whether its a donation or spreading the word - it helps us make a meaningful difference in the lives of people living with dementia and their families across Plymouth.

Together, we can ensure those affected by dementia feel seen, valued and supported through every step of their journey. Thank you.

Donate

Donate today, and help us raise £2,000 to support our dementia services right here in Plymouth.

With thanks to C S Productions