No one should feel forgotten
Published on 16 June 2026 10:55 AM
This Loneliness Awareness Week, from 15 to 21 June, we are raising awareness of the challenges many older people face and reminding those who may be feeling lonely that support is available.
New figures from Age UK show that around 280,000 older people across the South West do not tell their friends or family they are lonely because they don't want to be a burden. A further 190,000 say they often feel forgotten.
Jonquil's story
Jonquil has spent most of her life on the move. Growing up as the daughter of her father in the Royal Air Force, she went to eleven different schools and two technical colleges.
"I joined the Women's Royal Air Force in 1966 (now known as the RAF). I loved aeroplanes and eventually I became an Air Quartermaster, later called a Loadmaster, I travelled on VC10 aircraft to various places en route to Singapore and Hong Kong."
After leaving the service and eventually settling in Plymouth - life grew quieter, and after losing her husband, she often found herself alone at home. That was when she first came to Age UK Plymouth.
"I first came to Age UK Plymouth through Information and Advice. The team were able to stop the council charging me for council tax - that was such a help."
Through that visit, she was introduced to our Veterans Sticky Bun Morning - Jonquil decided to give it a try, and it quickly became part of her weekly routine.
"Coming here gives me something to do to feel occupied. I live by myself, but I'm never lonely when I come here."
Now she is a regular at our Community Cuppa on Friday mornings, and sometimes our Jolly Elders group, which takes place a couple of hours after.
What matters most to Jonquil is the simple friendships she's formed.
"You don't have to know anyone's surname. You just know their faces - a hello, good to see you, have a good week. That's it. That's all it takes sometimes. Even if you live alone, you don't have to be lonely. I'd recommend Age UK Plymouth's services and activities as a great way to meet others and you'll never know if you enjoy it until you come and try!"
From flying across the world in the Royal Air Force to finding her community here in Plymouth, Jonquil has many stories to tell - and today, Age UK Plymouth plays a huge part in what keeps her connected.
The research also found that 140,000 older people say most of the conversations they have are with strangers, while 120,000 feel embarrassed about being lonely.
While these figures highlight the reality of loneliness for many older people, they also show the value of keeping in touch with our communities. Across the South West, 520,000 older people say hobbies provide them with companionship and keep them connected.
Age UK Plymouth offers a range of services, groups and activities that help older people meet new people, build friendships and stay involved in their local community.
To find out more about what is available and discover upcoming activities, visit Activities and events or get in touch with our friendly team.
t: 01752 256020