LGBTQ+
Growing older should never mean feeling less seen, less included or less connected. Barnet is home to a vibrant LGBTQ+ community, and many older LGBTQ+ people tell us how important it is to find spaces where they feel understood, welcomed and safe to be themselves.
This page brings together local groups, social meet‑ups, housing support, helplines and community networks - both in Barnet and across London - that offer friendship, advice, activities and specialist support for LGBTQ+ people in mid‑ and later life. Whether you’re looking for company, culture, connection or practical help, you’ll find a starting point here.
Resources for Older LGBTQ+ People
Barnet & Nearby
Inkluder (Community HUB)
A Barnet‑based organisation run by local queer creatives. They host events, training, Pride celebrations and support networks, with plans to create a dedicated LGBTQ+ community centre. Find out more HERE.
Barnet LGBTI Social Group
A long‑running, informal social group for LGBTQ+ adults (18+). They meet in local pubs — often The Black Horse in High Barnet — for relaxed drinks and conversation. Find out more HERE
That’s Drag Bingo (Finchley)
A monthly inclusive night at The Red Lion Pub, featuring drag shows, bingo, lip‑sync battles and a friendly crowd. Find out more HERE.
North West London Lesbian & Gay Group
A weekly social group based in Harrow but welcoming people from Barnet and across NW London. Find out more HERE.
Broader London Support & Socials
Rainbow Call Companions (Re‑engage)
A free UK‑wide telephone friendship service for LGBTQ+ people aged 75+. You’re matched with an LGBTQ+ volunteer for regular, friendly chats. Find out more HERE.
Tonic Housing
The UK’s first LGBTQ+‑affirming retirement community. They offer events, resources and long‑term housing options for older LGBTQ+ people. Find out more HERE.
Age Well LGBTQ+ Club (Battersea and Wandsworth)
A welcoming weekly group for over‑50s for residents of Battersea and Wandsworth. Expect Pride talks, workshops, social afternoons and day trips. Find out more HERE.
Older LGBTQ+ Londoners Guide (Consortium)
A comprehensive directory of socials, meet‑ups, support groups and care networks for LGBTQ+ people aged 50+ across London. Read the guide HERE.
London Friend
The UK’s oldest LGBTQ+ charity, based near King’s Cross. They run an LGBTQ+ Over‑50s Social Group and offer specialist mental health support. Find out more HERE.
Stonewall Housing
Free, confidential housing advice for LGBTQ+ people of all ages facing homelessness, unsafe living situations or housing discrimination. Find out more HERE.
Galop
The UK’s LGBTQ+ anti‑abuse charity, offering emotional and practical support for anyone experiencing hate crime, domestic abuse or violence. Find out more HERE.