Respite care: having a break from caring
It's important to take a break from care if you need one. This is known as out respite care – find out how you...
Looking after yourself as a carer
Over time, caring can really take its toll. It’s vital that you take time to look after yourself as well as the person you care for – not just so you can carry on caring, but so you have the energy to keep doing the things you enjoy.
Reach out and ask for help
Don't feel like you need to do everything yourself. If you have relatives who live nearby, try to be honest with them if you need help or want to share the caring responsibility.
You're entitled to a carer's assessment from your local council, too – this can help identify support available for you to help you in your caring role.
Speak to your GP
If you’re finding caring tiring or difficult, it might help to tell your GP you’re a carer and discuss the impact that this is having on your health. They'll be able to offer you advice and support.
You may also be entitled to additional health services – such as a free annual flu jab – if the person you care for has a serious or ongoing health problem.
Stay healthy and well
Although it can be difficult, try to make sure that you eat a healthy diet. If you're struggling to eat enough, try eating something that you fancy – it's better to eat something, rather than nothing.
Staying active and getting enough sleep are also important parts of staying healthy and well – they help your mind as well as your body.
Arrange some respite care
Respite care provides care and support for the person you care for whilst giving you a much-needed break from caring.
Respite care might involve at-home care for the person you care for over an afternoon or taking them to an activity centre for a day.
Find time for yourself
Doing something enjoyable or relaxing can be very helpful when you have a caring responsibility.
If you're able to, make time for something like an exercise group or an evening class. Taking part in an activity you enjoy will give you the opportunity to do something for yourself – it’s important that you have your own interests and make time to pursue them where you can.
Your local library may provide information about social activities, events, education and courses.
But even if you don’t have the time for an activity or class, simply taking ten minutes whenever you can to have a cup of tea or get some fresh air can really help.
We're here to help
We offer support through our free advice line on 0800 678 1602. Lines are open 8am-7pm, 365 days a year. We also have specialist advisers at over 140 local Age UKs.