60% of older people don’t expect festive happiness
Published on 02 November 2015 12:01 AM
While many of us are looking forward to spending time with family and friends, new research from Age UK shows 60% of people aged 65 or over aren't expecting festive happiness to be part of their Christmas this year.
The findings come as Age UK launches its No one should have no one at Christmas campaign, raising awareness and tackling the heartbreaking fact that the festive season will be a very lonely time of year for many older people
Among those aged 65 or over, 61% said that Christmas wouldn't be Christmas without spending time with their children or grandchildren, the top choice when asked what they wouldn't be without this festive season.
Topping the list of worries for older people is missing loved ones who have passed away (42%), followed by the fear of not being able to see everyone they want to over Christmas (29%).
Just 14% of people aged 65 and over said they expected Christmas parties to be part of their festive celebrations, with only a third anticipating festive drinks with friends or neighbours.
Only 23% of those polled aged 18-34 say they plan to spend Christmas with their grandparents and just under half (48%) of those aged 25-54 say they plan to spend it with their parents.
No one should have no one at Christmas
The No one should have no one at Christmas campaign highlights that more than a million older people say they haven't spoken to a friend, neighbour or family member for over a month.
Last year Age UK also found that nearly 400,000 people aged 65 and over in the UK were worried about being lonely over Christmas.
The survey also reveals the worries the nation has about loneliness: nearly half of UK adults (41%) admit to being worried about being alone in later life.
In addition, nearly a third of people (27%) simply consider loneliness part of life - but when thinking about people facing a lonely Christmas, 46% of people feel sad about it and 16% are worried about friends and family who will be spending Christmas on their own.
Age UK is asking everyone to check in on older neighbours, relatives and friends, and sign its petition calling on the government to recognise loneliness as a serious health problem and commit to action to help tackle it.
Caroline Abrahams, Charity Director at Age UK said: 'The festive season is usually a time for celebration with those you love, but for too many older people it can reinforce feelings of loss, loneliness and of life passing them by.
'Contrary to what many people think, loneliness is not a normal part of ageing, and it not only makes life miserable, it can have a serious impact on physical and mental health too.
'Today, many families are widely dispersed so it is certainly true that visiting older relatives can be challenging. But as our research shows, making the effort to keep in touch often makes an enormous difference to older people who tend to be stoical and therefore reluctant to admit how lonely they are.
'We all have a role to play as individuals, families and communities in ensuring older people feel valued and included and that's why we're asking everyone to join us in taking action. By donating and signing our petition you can help older people to enjoy the festive season and the year to come; everyone should have someone at Christmas.'
Celebrities attending event on London's South Bank
Age UK is creating a ‘live' version of its No one should have no one at Christmas advert today in London's South Bank with a specially-created snow globe and celebrities Sylvia Syms, Diana Moran, Lionel Blair and Brian Murphy are stepping into the role to raise awareness of the issue.
Members of the public are invited to sit within the globe to find out more about loneliness and why it is such a serious problem.
Dame Judi Dench said: 'I've come to know that the most important thing in life as you get older is the people around you. Like many others, I eagerly await the arrival of loved ones at Christmas and without them the festive celebrations just wouldn't be the same.
'So it's heartbreaking to think of those who will have no one at all to share these special occasions. Age UK is trying to change this: help them to help an older person this festive season and support its No one should have no one at Christmas campaign.'
To help Age UK support lonely older people and find out how you can help by donating, volunteering and signing its petition calling on government to take action.
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